About Us

The wedding world, unfiltered.

Spill the Wedding Tea is a community-first platform where brides plan their weddings with honesty instead of hype.

We bring together real reviews, unfiltered advice, and a Rolodex of wedding professionals who actually show up — so couples can make decisions based on what real brides experienced, not polished marketing. No paid placements disguised as praise, no sugar-coated fluff. Just the tea, spilled by the people who lived it.

The platform is built for brides at every stage of planning: from the newly engaged looking for their first vendor, to the nearly-wed trading last-minute tips, to the married ready to pass on what they learned. Wedding vendors are part of the conversation too — verified pros can list their businesses, share service updates, and earn trust through real bride reviews instead of glossy ads.

Spill the Wedding Tea is built and maintained by a small, independent team based in Portland, Oregon. We started it because wedding planning deserved a place where the tea could be spilled without the fluff — sassy, supportive, and always honest. Every review, recommendation, and rant you read here comes from a real member of the community.

For brides

Honest reviews and a group chat that actually gets it.

For vendors

List your business and earn trust through real reviews.

Portland-made

Built with love in Portland, OR for brides everywhere.

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